Children are often our best teachers.
"The Golden Gift"
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Some time ago, a friend of mine punished his 3-year-old daughter for
wasting a roll of gold wrapping paper. Money was tight, and he became
infuriated when the child tried to decorate a box to put under the tree.
Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift to her father the next
morning and said, "This is for you, Daddy." He was embarrassed by his
earlier overreaction, but his anger flared again when he found
that the box was empty. He yelled at her, "Don't you know that when you
give someone a present, there's supposed to be something inside of it?"
The little girl looked up at him with tears in her eyes and said, "Oh,
Daddy, it's not empty. I blew kisses into the box. All for you, Daddy."
The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little girl, and he
begged her forgiveness. My friend told me that he kept that gold box by
his bed for years. Whenever he was discouraged, he would take out an
imaginary kiss and remember the love of the child who had put it there.
In a very real sense, each of us as parents has been given a gold
container filled with unconditional love and kisses from our children.
There is no more precious possession anyone could hold.
"The Most Caring Child"
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Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was
asked to judge. The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring
child. The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor
was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing
the
man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto
his lap, and just sat there. When his mother asked him
what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, "Nothing ... I
just
helped him cry."
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"Two Nickels and Five Pennies"
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When an ice cream sundae cost much less, a boy entered a coffee shop and
sat at a table. A waitress put a glass of water in front of him.
"How much is an ice cream sundae?" "Fifty cents," replied the waitress.
The little boy pulled his hand out of his pocket and studied a number of
coins in it. "How much is a dish of plain ice cream?" he inquired.
Some people were now waiting for a table, and the waitress was impatient.
"Thirty-five cents," she said angrily. The little boy again counted the
coins. "I'll have the plain ice cream."
The waitress brought the ice cream and walked away. The boy finished,
paid the cashier, and departed. When the waitress came back, she
swallowed
hard at what she saw. There, placed neatly beside the
empty dish, were two nickels and five pennies -- her tip.
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"What It Means to Be Adopted"
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Teacher Debbie Moon's first graders were discussing a picture of a
family.
One little boy in the picture had a different color hair than the other
family members. One child suggested that he was adopted and a little girl
named Jocelynn Jay said, "I know all about adoptions because I was
adopted." "What does it mean to be adopted?" asked another child. "It
means," said Jocelynn, "that you grew in your mommy's heart instead of her
tummy."
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"Discouraged?"
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As I was driving home from work one day, I stopped to watch a local
Little League baseball game that was being played in a park near my home.
As I sat down behind the bench on the first-baseline, I asked
one of the boys what the score was. "We're behind 14 to nothing," he
answered with a smile. "Really," I said. "I have to say you don't look
very discouraged." "Discouraged?" the boy asked with a puzzled
look on his face. "Why should we be discouraged? We haven't been up to
bat yet."
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"Roles And How We Play Them"
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Whenever I'm disappointed with my spot in my life, I stop and think
about
little Jamie Scott. Jamie was trying out for a part in a school play.
His
mother told me that he'd set his heart on being in it, though she feared
he would not be chosen. On the day the parts were awarded, I went with
her to collect him after school. Jamie rushed up to her, eyes shining with
pride and excitement. "Guess what Mum," he shouted, and then said those
words that will remain a lesson to me: "I've been chosen to clap and
cheer!"
"You need a good sense of "Humus" to be in the Dairy Business"
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